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Struggling with the waiting period before TMS starts

I got approved for TMS two weeks ago but my first appointment isn't until next month due to scheduling. This waiting period is brutal. I know rationally that a few more weeks won't matter in the long run, but when you're in the thick of depression, every day feels like a year. I finally have hope that something might help and now I just have to... wait. Anyone else dealt with this? How did you cope with the anticipation?
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Mike R.
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Rachel W.
14d agoedited

I remember this exact feeling. The gap between "there might be hope" and actually starting treatment was so hard. What helped me: I made a simple daily checklist — shower, walk for 10 minutes, eat one real meal. Just small things to get through each day until it started. You've already done the hardest part by getting approved.

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Sarah M.
13d agoedited

I had a 3-week wait and used the time to prepare. I read about other people's experiences (this forum would have been great), figured out my schedule for daily appointments, and told my employer what was coming. The waiting is awful but you CAN get through it.

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Mike, what you're feeling is completely valid. The frustration of having to wait when you're suffering is real. A few suggestions: - Call the clinic and ask to be put on a cancellation list — sometimes spots open up earlier - Continue any current medications as prescribed - Try to maintain basic routines even when it's hard - If you're in crisis at any point, please reach out to 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline) You're doing the right thing by reaching out to this community.

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Emma S.
10d agoedited

Sending you strength, Mike. I was in the same spot 4 months ago. Now I'm on session 24 and feeling better than I have in years. The wait is temporary.

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Mike R.
8d agoedited

Thank you all. I called the clinic and got on the cancellation list like Dr. Martinez suggested. They already moved me up by a week! Also, Rachel's checklist idea is exactly what I needed. One day at a time.